Saturday, March 30, 2013
March Update
Friday, March 1, 2013
February Update
- Accelerated English courses started the end of January into this month. Five or more hours a day, 6 days a week for two weeks.
- Time off/Vacation from the 5th to the 19th of February.
- Took an offer to teach a college student English for five days and loved it. Rachel and I co-taught pronunciation and phonetics.
- Took the train to Shanghai and met up with Rachel's family for the week and receive some of the gracious gifts sent with them.
- Traveled via bullet train to Beijing.
- Lost our hotel directions, few spoke English, it was cold. Made for a great evening!
- Saw the great wall, Tiananmen square, and the forbidden city
- All of us traveled on the sleeper train back to Pingxiang for the last two days of vacation
- Met a young boy named Bill and a girl named Fang Shan (pronounced: Fun Shun), both Chinese.
- Taught them to pay some card games in English
- Shared a "better story" with them too.
- Rachel's family nearly missed their return flight back to the states
- My Chinese phone is now in America.
- We had a big meeting with our host about the school, our group of believers, and a few other things
- Rachel and I have to decide whether to stay another year or not
- We received some study curriculem for our group.
- Rachel and I will start the spring semester next week and be joined with all the Chinese teachers.
- Rachel and I might start Chinese classes before the month is over.
Every time we send out a monthly update, we get the feeling so much has happened that it's hard to describe everything in adequate detail. The good news is… most of what took place was a lot of fun. Of course, that makes it easy to write about—and hopefully easy to read!
We are just getting back into teaching after having a small break for the Chinese New Year. We had approximately three weeks off, which was a very welcome and very much-needed break since we worked through Christmas. Well, I should say we kind of took time off. During our first week of vacation, we wound up co-tutoring a college student named David, who was getting ready to take an important test this month. He knew a lot about English, but he had a very thick accent. After four days with us, the poor guy was exhausted and tongue-tied! Both Jeremy and I discovered that we liked tutoring older students a lot. We also think about things from entirely different angles, which has proven valuable in our marriage and when we tag-teach.
The day we finished tutoring David in pronunciation, Jeremy and I raced home to pack. We boarded an overnight train that afternoon, and headed to Shanghai to meet my mom and sister! We can't even begin to say how good it was to see them. We had grown accustomed to not hearing native English speakers. Or familiar faces. Or family. Their presence, even for just a week, was refreshing to say the least. They came armed with all kinds of donations for us and Apple Tree. We have got spices and cookbooks (and Rooibos tea!) for our home, good material for our weekly book meetings, and we have more additions to the library and game cabinet at school. On a different note, it was also encouraging to compare our knowledge of Chinese language and culture with newcomers. We still don't know a lot of things, but we certainly have learned a lot since we first got off our first flight. In some ways, it seemed like we were seeing China for the first time all over again. Mom and Lillian would point out something new and unusual, and we would remember how unfamiliar everything was to us when we first came.
However, there was plenty of China that we had not experienced—and that included our next stop, Beijing. The next day, the four of us lugged our suitcases back into the city and got on a bullet train. The train was really fast, but it honestly didn't feel as awesome as any of us had anticipated. It just kind of felt like a really fast train. The Chinese had warned us not to expect too much, but you know how that goes. Some things you just have to experience yourself.
Once we got to Beijing, we had a ton of trouble getting to a hotel. It was bitterly cold, and we spent four hours walking around—trying desperately to figure out where our original hotel was (the opposite end of one of the biggest cities in the world), how we could get a taxi to take us and all of our bags, where we could sleep for the night (it was going on 11pm) and most importantly—where we could find a bathroom. All of this took place on empty stomachs, since we hadn't eaten anything but nuts and soup the entire day. After some quick thinking on Jeremy's part and some help from Tim back in Pingxiang, we wheeled all our suitcases down one of those sinister alleys you see in Jackie Chan movies to our hotel. We stuck it out there for the next three days, and it didn't turn out half bad. The rest of the vacation was awfully fun. We saw the Forbidden City, the Great Wall and Tiananmen Square… not to mention a host of tourist shops, markets, restaurants, etc. Mom and Lil took pictures of everything they found interesting, which was quite a lot. We'll post pictures so you get an idea of what things looked like.
After Beijing, the four of us boarded an overnight train to Pingxiang. Mom and Lil had 17 hours to get used to Chinese travel by train. What's that look like? Picture triple bunks stacked nearly the ceiling, with people crammed in every available nook and cranny. What's it smell like? Noodles and spicy Chinese food if you're lucky; disgusting bathrooms and stinky feet more often than not. What's it sound like? Crying babies and Mandarin spoken at full volume at all hours of the night. That might not sound too pleasant, but the emphasis on community and relationship-building makes it all worth it. Everyone was curious to see the Americans, and quite a few people were brave enough to talk with us. We met a boy named Bill who wanted to practice his English with us, and we have already begun to correspond with him via email. We also met a girl named Fen Shang, a sweet girl who helped translate for us to the rest of the curious passengers and vice versa. Best of all, Mom talked with a woman named Tracy from 1-3 in the morning! Tracy is an English teacher from Beijing, so her level of English was very good. Mom took full advantage of that to share truth with her.
A few hours after Mom's conversation with Tracy, we arrived in Pingxiang. Mom and Lillian liked our apartment a lot, and they really enjoyed meeting Tim, Mabel and David. Tim and Mabel went all out to show them hospitality. We went to a fancy restaurant where my family got to try eating donkey for the first time. (It's really good, just in case you get a chance to try it yourself!) The next day, Mom taught Mabel the basics of hand-quilting, while the rest of us played Egyptian Rat Killer. We also showed them the school, our Wal-Mart, Pingxiang's city center, etc. It was so nice to show off our little city. We enjoyed it immensely, and I think they did too. After just seven days in China, they flew back home and are already back into life in America.
Just after Mom and Lillian left, we got the chance to sit down with Tim and Mabel. Since we have officially been in China for six months now, we decided it would be good to give them an honest assessment of what we think of working at Apple Tree. This conversation kind of laid the foundation for figuring out if we'll stay on for another year or not. We talked for nearly two hours, and at the end we all felt very satisfied with how the conversation went. Now, it just remains to be seen whether or not serious change will take place. If it does, that will give us incentive to stay. If not, we will probably have to leave Pingxiang, as much as we love it here.
As always, here are a few things you can be thinking about for us:
The leadership/management of Apple Tree
The decision whether to stay here or not
Finding solutions to problems that have been raised with the school
Our Book meetings, since we've started a new series with a group from Albuquerque
Reaching our students, especially Petty, who's been asking lots of good questions
Thanks for keeping us in your thoughts! Please write as you're able. We always love hearing news from the States.
Blessings from the VanStriens
Friday, February 1, 2013
China Update January
- There is a restaurant on the way to work. As Rachel and I are walking by we cannot help but notice this lady's hair! It is Huge!!! Looked like a bulbous bouffant.
- Another common sight is people washing their hair in odd places. We saw a lady washing her hair in a restaurant, right next to where they cook the food!
- My personal favorite was seeing a man doing some remodeling. Imagine with me a split room - one upper section and one lower section. This man was standing on the upper section and destroying the divider between the sections. I wanted to stick around and see what happened next, but the result of destroying the floor under you is the same - regardless of your country.
- As many know, China has a lot of small cars and trucks. Yet, even with smaller vehicles they still manage to move large amounts of all sorts of things. Our favorite is a cardboard recycle truck we saw... a small blue truck with cardboard stacked nearly to the street light.
- Rachel and I go for a walk enjoying our day off and we hear a noise. Keep walking and hear it again. A cat! Look a little closer and we found the cat was tied to the fire hydrant. What a joyous moment if you are a dog. Find a hydrant and a snack! Haha (Sorry animal lovers).
- Our personal favorite? That would have to be the motorcycle we saw on our way to work one morning. Motorcycles are not uncommon, but this particular one caught us off guard. We could barely see the bike because of the amount of live chickens that were hanging from every available spot. Four or five chickens dangled from each handlebars, while six more were tied to the seat. Of course, there were three to four crammed into a compartment in the back. Rachel and I found it hysterical, but everyone else viewed this with an attitude of "How else can you get chickens to the market?"
- Our Chinese teachers regularly practice reading and speaking to improve their grammar and vocabulary. On occasion they will call us to understand or pronounce a word. Our favorite so far is when we received a call late at night about how to pronounce a word. "Jeremy? How do you say this word? Is it hobo or hObO? (Short or long vowels)" Though a very easy and innocent question, it made our evening.
Sunday, December 30, 2012
Happy "Merry Christmas" and New year
- Rachel's South Africa trip with Chamber Singers (March 10-17)
- Rachel's performance of "A Shayna Maidel", a play set after World War II (March 1-3)
- Jeremy's completion of CVC internship in Ohio
- Rachel's senior voice recital (May 3)
- College Graduation (May 5)
- Rachel's last summer home
- Rachel's 3 months of employment at Moriarty Community Library
- Jeremy's 3 months of working 3 jobs
- Pre-wedding reception & China announcement in New Mexico (June 9)
- Rachel's 22nd birthday (July 25)
- Our wedding (August 11)
- Move to China (August 23)
- Employment at Apple Tree English Training Center
- Our best friends from college were married; week in the USA (September 8)
- Jeremy's 23rd birthday (September 22)
- First Thanksgiving as a married couple (November 22)
- First Christmas as a married couple (December 25)
- Childhood best friend's wedding (December 28)
Saturday, November 24, 2012
Sunday, November 18, 2012
"Grocery" List Update - Nov
The last few weeks have been anything but boring, and the past couple of days are no exception. Rachel and I continue to rack up new experiences together, some good and some not so good. We trust that the bad things are molding and shaping us into the people we need to be. As for the good things, we just sit back and enjoy them.
This section is just for those that want to know the basics of how we are doing and get on with other things. So, without delay: Rachel and I have experienced everything from eating Chinese take-out for a date, to being taken out for Chinese with company owners and everything between. We are constantly surprised at how many things a person can experience in the matter of two weeks. We are doing better even with Rachel taking her turn at being sick and losing her voice. Next week is inspection, that really shapes what the next few months look like for us.
Now for those that want the details. Rachel and I are doing well and adapting to our "schedule" as best as we can given the nature of it. We have a good idea what to expect each week, and are getting more comfortable with doing things outside of just class. The past weekend we decided to take advantage of an evening off and get some Chinese for dinner instead of making it ourselves. It was surprisingly easy, but the whole idea just made us laugh. Americans ordering Chinese takeout... in China. I hope you appreciate the humor as much as we did. Maybe the next time we go out we can order some American take-out. They have something that looks like a mix between KFC and Burger King. Still not sure what I think of it.
On the subject of food. Surprisingly, that is something we have adapted to quite well. Even an ever-changing teaching schedule is something we got used to pretty quickly, but the changes taking place in the states are the ones getting to us. We hear about people graduating from colleges, starting new jobs, or celebrating birthdays. Those are the kinds of things that I cannot get used to hearing while being a world away. Those are the things that just get harder each time. Missing thanksgiving at my house with the family, not making a Christmas tree with Rachel's family. Those are the real sacrifices. I personally can live on rice just fine, and being cold is bearable, but being away from family and friends is the hard part. Especially during the holidays, keep us in mind.
It isn't all sacrifice though, that much is for sure. Especially when you are one of the only Americans in the city - It comes with some perks. Pretty much everyone wants to be your friend, take you out to dinner or invite you to your home so they can practice their English. We are now friends with a Chinese millionaire, the chief of police, the owner of a beauty salon, and a few other people. I don't have a clue what their names are, but they say "We be friends" so that is good enough for me.
Now, you might be wondering, "How did they get in contact with the chief of police?" So I'll tell you the short version of a long story.
Because we are foreign teachers in a private training school, there is a lot of paper work involved on a multitude of different levels. This is especially true when our competing schools complain about how we operate. One that we have dealt with a few different times is registering with the local police station. And since the chief's daughter wants to learn English, guess who he wants to befriend? Us.
And that is the short story of how we know the chief of police.
Now, on to the business side of this email. People have been asking about how they can help and what ways we need support. As much as we encourage them to support other ministries, they continue to ask. So, to follow the advice of a man with whom I am very close, I am making a wish list of all the things we need or could use. Most items on the list do not need to be bought, only funded. With shipping and exchange rates, the best thing is for us to buy from companies within China. There are only a few American items that will need to be brought or shipped over. If there is anything you would be willing to help with, shoot me an email.
For the school.
- Foreign Teacher(s) - Granted, this cannot be bought at the store, but it is a financial need. Having another foreign teacher will allow the school to expand and give the current teachers a lighter load all around. To hire another teacher, the school needs to raise roughly $800/Month.
- Photo copier - ours only works 50% of them time.
- School Supplies - Pencils, colored pencils, colored markers, glue sticks, and cheap paper plates for crafts.
- Give away prizes for students: Hot wheel cars, American candy and anything small that is clearly made in America.
- Games - Bananagrams, Jenga, Boggle, letter/spelling/grammar games.
- iPad - I know, I am being ridiculous, it is definitely a wishlist item. But when I am looking at the options for replacing my computer, it is the most logical. It can function in a class room or at home, and there are thousands of free apps for learning and for organizing.
- Dishes - We want to be hospitable to our Chinese friends; however, we currently have two small bowls... which makes it difficult to host people. We need a few plates and bowls for the people we invite over for dinner. Dinner items for 6 people would cost about $25 with enough left over for food to feed them.
- Recipes - This is an easy one and it's free: Good and easy recipes for classic American food. Rachel and I cook for our study group Monday mornings and our Chinese friends want to learn to cook different American dishes. Soups, stews, and different ways to cook meat are things they really want to know.
- American spices - China has red pepper, white pepper, black pepper and chili pepper. Oh, and ginger. We could use some more.
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
"Typical" - End of October Update
Since there's no such thing as a truly "typical" week, I'll just write about last week to give you an idea of what life here is like.
Monday
For Rachel and I, our teaching schedules runs from Tuesday through Sunday, so what better way to start the week than with a day off? Never looked forward to Mondays so much in my life. Tuesday isn't bad either, mostly because I only have to teach for three hours and the classes don't start before lunch. A typical Monday is spent sleeping in and eating a homemade breakfast. Pancakes and oatmeal are among our favorites. Then we either sit around and read or go explore the 'small' city of 1.8 million people. To end the day we have friends over and spend time reading and discussing a certain Book. This week was a little different because we started our day with reading together. I believe that will be the new "normal."
Our reading group consists of 5 people, three of which are Chinese. We are on rotation for leading discussion, but are never quite sure which way we are rotating. The first time I led discussion, I was only given one day notice. Turned out well enough though. I don't have to prepare as much as an American meeting because I must speak slowly in order to be understood. Discussion also involves a lot of questions, which also makes the time pass quickly. As long as I have information about my topic, the questions are really what lead the discussion. I personally enjoy that much more than a lecture or hearing one person's opinion.
The same goes for when one of the Chinese lead the discussion. They are responsible to bring a discussion topic, though the questions are really what control the conversation. I think it's absolutely great that they can lead a discussion in a foreign language though, I certainly would not be able to do that.
Tuesday
As I said before, Tuesday is my second favorite day of the week. Classes are late enough that we are able to sleep in and still get to work well before classes actually start. I teach 3 classes, but only 6 students. Rachel teaches one class of two students. The interesting part of this particular Tuesday involved construction. Over the holiday, they began remodeling the entire school and they were still working on it when we returned to classes. They were just finishing the offices around lunch time, but until then Rachel and I worked with our laptops on a sofa in the hall. For my first class, we met in the almost completed offices. After lunch, they finished two more class rooms just in time for Rachel and I to teach.
Operating a school building while its being remodeled is very interesting. It would be one thing if it was one room at a time, or if the mess was contained even slightly, but that's not what happened. As students came in for class they had to step over power cords, climb over furniture and avoid wet glue on the floor. Even during my class I had to keep the fan on so to keep the room from filling with dust. I know that I wouldn't be sending my child to a school building under construction in America, but to them it seemed normal.
Wednesday - Friday
Rachel and I woke up Wednesday to start the more aggressive part of our week, only to find that we didn't have any running water. At first I thought we just didn't have any pressure built up, then it turns out we had no water at all. Couldn't wash the dishes, take a shower or even brush our teeth in the sink. Then, right before we leave for the school, it turns back on. I figured they must have been doing something with the water line and had to turn off power for a little while.
The next day we wake up and I try to make breakfast and I notice our electric stove isn't working. It doesn't work 100% to begin with, this time it wouldn't even turn on. Neither would the kitchen light, or the fan. We had lost power. The curious thing was, we still had all the running water. I would have thought that one would have determined the other. I am finding that isn't the case.
On Friday, and the power was back on, but the water was off again. When I got to the school, I mentioned these things to Tim, who is responsible for our living conditions. "Yes, this happens often. It is normal, we did not have power either. You get used to it," he said with a nervous grin.
Saturday -Sunday
By Saturday construction on the school was finished and we could prepare for classes properly. At least, that is what I would have thought. This weekend we had a few demo classes, which means the schedule got changed around a dozen different times and Rachel and I didn't even know what classes we taught until a few hours before they began. When I consider that I have to be at different schools to teach demo classes, it is amazing I made it to all my classes this week at all!
For example, I taught a demo class at another school this Sunday. The class turned out to be a single student three years old and as spoiled as they come. She was determined that she wouldn't learn any English until she got some cake. Instead of giving in, this three year old little girl got up and walked down the street to find some cake - right in the middle of class. Tim stopped her and told her she had to study first before she could get cake. After much crying and arguing between Tim and this 3 year old girl, Tim presented her with two options. She could either study English or she could walk home. She chose to walk - nearly 3 miles. The parent was so impressed by how Tim handled the situation, they they signed her up for classes! Even if she doesn't learn any of the language, they are hoping she will learn some good character.
End of October
Since writing this, the co-founders of the school, Kurt and Cathy, have come for a visit. Although they only stayed for two days, they were a huge encouragement to all of us teachers at Apple Tree. They had to continue on to a conference down in Hong Kong (all the pastors in mainland China travel to Hong Kong where they can meet freely before returning to their homes.) While they were here, we had a chance to host a young Chinese lady named Penny. She is tentatively planning to open an Apple Tree in her home town, so she saw everything we are doing here at our school. In between touring our three Apple Tree locations here in Pingxiang, Kurt & Cathy & Penny joined our discussion group for a total of 8! We were blessed to have them.
While they were here, Kurt and Cathy also encouraged us strongly to continue learning Mandarin. Since then, we have had more lessons and have tried to pick up more of the language around us. It's slow going, but we are getting better at it.
That's it for now! Please continue to write to us when you can and keep us "in mind!"
The "Average" week of some pilgrims,
Jeremy and Rachel VanStrien
